FAQs

I’ve never talked to anyone. I’m used to handling things on my own. Aren’t people who go to therapy weak?

Not at all. People who ask for help know when they need it and have the courage to reach out. Everyone needs help now and then. In our work together, I’ll help you explore and identify your strengths and how to implement them to reduce the influence of the problems you are facing.

What’s the difference between talking to you or my best friend or family?

The difference is between someone who can do something, and someone who has the training and experience to do that same thing professionally. A mental health professional can help you approach your situation in a new way– teach you new skills, gain different perspectives, listen to you without judgment or expectations, and help you listen to yourself. Furthermore, counseling is confidential. You won’t have to worry about others “knowing my business.” Lastly, if your situation provokes a great deal of negative emotion, and you’ve been confiding in a friend or family member, there is the risk that once you are feeling better you could start avoiding that person so you aren’t reminded of this difficult time in your life.

Why shouldn’t I just take medication?

Medication can be effective but it alone cannot solve all issues. Sometimes medication is needed in conjunction with counseling. Our work together is designed to explore and unpack the problems you are experiencing and expand on your strengths that can help you accomplish your personal goals. 

What is the structure of therapy sessions?

Individual therapy sessions vary based on your unique needs and preferences. Typically, sessions are 45 or 60 minutes in length; 90 minute sessions may also be requested to work through more in-depth stressors.

Sessions are typically conducted weekly but the frequency can be adjusted based on your needs. The frequency of sessions is discussed throughout the course of treatment and may change over time. 

How does it work? What do I have to do in sessions?

Because each person has different issues and goals for counseling, it will be different depending on the individual. I tailor my therapeutic approach to your specific needs.

How long will it take?

Unfortunately, this is not possible to say in a general FAQs page. Everyone’s circumstances are unique to them and the length of time counseling can take to allow you to accomplish your goals depends on your desire for personal development, your commitment, and the factors that are driving you to seek counseling in the first place.

I want to get the most out of therapy. What can I do to help?

I am so glad you are dedicated to getting the most out of your sessions. Your active participation and dedication will be crucial to your success.

Do you offer in-person or virtual sessions?

I offer both! My preference is to meet with clients in-person whenever possible, as I believe this provides the best connection between a therapist and a client. I also know that many clients appreciate the convenience and flexibility of virtual sessions. Offering virtual sessions allows me to provide therapy services to anyone living in New York State. 

Whether your sessions are conducted virtually or in-person, the most important thing is to attend therapy sessions consistently to achieve your desired outcomes.